20 Years Ago ….

My husband, oldest son and I had spent the night of November 27th, 1983, at my Mother’s, fearing that if we didn’t, we would become snowbound in our home 3 miles outside of town. I awoke the next morning with an immediate need to get to the store to do grocery shopping, get home and clean the house and do all the laundry, so we left as soon as I got myself ready. I don’t remember exactly what time I went to bed that night, but I know I went to sleep feeling very satisfied that I had accomplished everything I had so urgently felt the need to do. I slept very well all night, until about 5:30am –


then I awoke needing to go to the bathroom very badly, so I got up and sleepily trudged my way to the bathroom. It wasn’t until I was more awake, sitting right there on the toily, that I realized there was more to this feeling I had than simply needing to use the bathroom. It was time.

I went back to the bedroom and woke my husband. Then I went to the window and looked out, as the sun had begun to rise. Oh no! More snow! We have to leave right now! I got my son up and told him to hurry and get dressed; we were taking him to Grandma’s. Then I called the doctor and told him we were on our way. Tony wanted to drive down the road and get his big truck from work then come pick me up, but I said no, we needed to leave immediately, and I was fairly sure the car would make it. I was very close to being wrong!

We made it into town, albeit precariously at times, but then we got behind an idiot driver going about 5 mph, and I was beginning to panic! We finally made it to my Mother’s, and Tony just parked right there in the middle of the street, fearing that if turned into the driveway we would get stuck. He picked up Ryan and ran him up to the house, where Mom was waiting. We then drove the few blocks to the hospital, and breathed a huge sigh of relief as we walked through the doors.

I was rushed upstairs and was quite shocked when the nurses examining me announced, “She’s crowning! Call the doctor!” What?! Crowning?! Already??? Suddenly, time slowed to a crawl. I distinctly remember everything going in slow motion. Even the way people talked sounded slow. I wondered why it was taking everyone so long to do anything!

The doctor arrived after what seemed an eternity, and they whisked me to the delivery room. There had not been any time to prep me whatsoever. Once inside the delivery room, the doctor proceeded to break my water. There was so much pressure from the baby already being so low, that when the water broke, it showered the poor doctor from head to foot! I remember thinking, “Serves you right for keeping me waiting”. LOL In actuality, he had come to the hospital as soon as the nurses called him. He only lived about 3 blocks away, so it didn’t take him any time at all to get there. It only seemed like it took forever!

Three good pushes later, our son David was born, perfect, and precious. He came into the world at 7:58am — 32 minutes after I arrived at the hospital. It was the 29th of November, 1983.

So, today, 20 years later, I want to wish my son a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! You will always be perfect and precious to us! We love you!

11 Responses to “20 Years Ago ….”

  1. Beverly
    November 29th, 2003 at 3:46 am

    Happy Birthday, David! Hope you have a great day, filled with love laughter and friends all around you. You have a wonderful mom! ^_^ Love you, Lady!

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  2. Kirsi
    November 29th, 2003 at 4:16 am

    Happy Birthday, David!

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  3. CJ
    November 29th, 2003 at 6:04 am

    Beautiful story Leigh… and it couldn’t be more fitting for any ONE of us, with it being the Thanksgiving holiday. Who could ask for more than to give birth during this already memorable time.

    Happy Birthday David!!! You have one of the “bestest” mommies I’ve come to know.

    Thanks for sharing g/f. ((hugs)) Love you!

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  4. Michelle
    November 29th, 2003 at 7:17 am

    So you have a lot to be thankful for on this day. Happy Birth day to you - for giving life to your precious son and Happy Birthday to David.
    If all births were that simply, I think I would have had children of my own *lol*

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  5. Leslie
    November 29th, 2003 at 7:33 am

    What a great story. The nesting instinct is so strong within us; it’s so interesting to hear what kinds of things women feel a need to do just before giving birth and more often than not, cleaning the house seems to rank right up there. That being the case, you’d think my gestation period would be that of an elephant (were I pregnant)…no other reason to explain this constant cleaning.

    Happy birthday wishes to David! 20 is a great year and I hope it’s one of his best so far.

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  6. Leigh
    November 29th, 2003 at 11:50 am

    Thank you all so much! I will relay all of your birthday wishes to David when I see him today. (((hugs)))

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  7. Carrie
    November 29th, 2003 at 12:14 pm

    Happy Birthday David!! What a wonderful remembrance, thank you for sharing it with us!

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  8. Marsha
    November 29th, 2003 at 2:24 pm

    Happy Birthday David! And thanks Leigh, for sharing his story with us.

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  9. Debbie
    November 29th, 2003 at 6:43 pm

    What a wonderful entry! )) Thanks a million for sharing!! I LUUVed reading all about it!! )

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY David!!

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  10. Martie
    November 30th, 2003 at 12:49 am

    I agree with everyone…great story!
    I love reading them.
    Happy Belated B-day David.

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  11. April
    December 1st, 2003 at 9:49 am

    I remember thinking, “Serves you right for keeping me waiting”.

    This made me laugh outloud. It seems that some of the funniest things can go through one’s mind when one is delivering.

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