Anniversaries - bah

Today is, unbelievably, 17 years since my father died. My parents were divorced when I was just 1 year old. I hadn't had any contact with him since I was a freshman in High School - until a year before he died. His death was very sudden and unexpected. I'm very thankful for the year I had with him to try and repair some of the damage done over the years. I really hope he went to heaven. I hope he and my mother have seen each other up there and are friends. That would be so nice.

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me too. I hope they are good friends in Heaven.
(((hug)))

Oh honey. That is so sad.

I still believe that having certain parental issues growing up gives you a lifelong unstable and unsecure feeling. Maybe that feeling can be overcome later with a good marriage, children or whatever. I don't have either of those and I always feel like someone can pull the rug out from under me at any time.

Um, or maybe it's just me. ;)

(BTW, my blog link has changed)

I think they are friends up there. Heaven is a whole other world, and full of love!
I can hear my parents at times. I am late for work and drop my purse and things go flying, and I can here my mom saying "Bill now stop that! She is late for work!" And I can hear my did giggling. Well not really, but I do imagine things like that!

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